See the lesson in this link here: http://nandoism.com/2012/04/04/day-4-nando25-challenge-the-meanings-we-attach-to-life-situations/
How I am going to Challenge the meanings I associate and create new ones:
What NEW meanings will you create for yourself in these areas?
LOVE - no longer will I view love an something intangible and something I can't obtain. I will love and try to become fearless when I am in love. I will give of myself to those who deserve it and accept nothing less in return. I will stop hiding behind my failed relationships and the scars I carry. I will emerge new, whole and ready to love and be in a loving relationship like I deserve
CAREER - For me this will mean being happy. It will not always be easy forging the different careers that I want, but it will mean that I accomplish a sense of inner peace, belonging and most important fulfillment. I won't give up when the going gets hard.
WEIGHT- I will not get comfortable with this 40 lb weight loss. I will continue to lose weight and create a healthy lifestyle for me and my son. I will NOT let my weight determine who I am or who I can become.I will be a confident curvy goddess.
I think you hit the nail on the head when you talk about loving fearlessly. That is such a hard thing for so many of us to do because we've been hurt before or because we are afraid of rejection. But being fearless is the key.
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